10 Clear Signs That You Have a Strong Personality Type!

Emotional strength, who doesn't want that? For many people, being emotionally strong means being able to cope well with the demands of life. It is not always easy to determine your own emotional strength, but if you know the signs of such strength, you can better assess where you stand. Anyone who can assess their own strengths in this area is also capable of working on any shortcomings they may have.

Today: Signs of Emotional Strength

In this article, we will share with you ten signs of emotional strength. 

1. Openness to feedback from others

We all have something we are passionate about. Whether you like a certain type of music, prefer a certain style of clothing or are particularly proud of the way you raise your children. The more important something is to you, the more difficult it can be to process negative feedback. But in this lies an important sign of emotional strength. Those who are more emotionally stable are able to accept criticism and feedback without feeling personally devalued.

2. Trust in Yourself

Emotionally strong people act in ways that they personally believe are right, even when the world around them thinks that they are wrong. We usually have an intuitive feeling inside us as to what feels right. But for some people, this feeling can crumble when others, often without being asked, give their opinions and try to argue otherwise. Emotionally strong people stay on course in these situations. Those with a lot of self-confidence can listen to the advice of others without becoming insecure about it or despairing.

3. Being able to express your emotions in a healthy way

Yes, it is good to be aware of your feelings and to express them openly. At the same time, however, it's not good to let everything out completely unfiltered. Not all people respond positively to this kind of communication. Often, the person freely communicating their feelings is considered hysterical, egocentric, or lacking in self-control, potentially causing them more stress than had they not communicated their feelings at all.

Emotionally strong people have learned to convey their feelings to others in such a way that they can still control themselves. They have a sense of what is good for them and at what point they may harm themselves by sharing their emotions.

4. Take care of yourself

Emotional strength also means taking care of your own mental health. It is good to be there for others and to help them, but you must also not lose sight of your own needs. No one is helped if you help others to the point of self-abandonment. Only those who are good to themselves can also be good to others in the long term. Taking care of yourself can also mean that sometimes you have to set boundaries. This is not a sign of selfishness but of emotional strength.

5. Being able to apologize

We all make mistakes, some big and some small. Some things are so mundane that you don't need to lose yourself in explanations and apologies. Others are more significant and leave you with a strong feeling inside that something went very wrong. Being able to admit to such mistakes, take responsibility for them and apologize to others is an important sign of emotional strength. 

6. Kindness and empathy show inner strength

Sometimes you may grow tired of and despair at the many lies and insincere moments people have with each other. Yes, there are some people on this planet who will only be friendly to you because they see you as a means to an end. But rest assured, these people are not in the majority. Most people are probably still interested in honesty, empathy and kindness. Be what you want others to be, even when there are people who may not deserve your kindness.

A small minority of people with questionable character and motives should not dictate how you behave to others. Acting kindly and empathetically also shows that you have enough emotional strength to stand above and see past the bad behavior of others. Those who are strong on the inside can afford to set a good example on the outside.

7. Control

Your emotions are yours, but when you are emotionally strong, your emotions must not be stronger than you are. Totally freaking out and losing control of yourself can do you more harm than good. It's a sign of emotional resilience, therefore, if you're still finding ways to not let your emotions get out of control.

You can feel everything, but you don't always have to let it out unfiltered, especially not to everyone. Saying something in the heat of the moment that you can’t take back could hurt another person a lot. Pay attention to the power of your words.

8. Know your limits

You can't do everything and you can't know everything. It's normal to need help from others now and then. Emotionally strong people can also accept help in such situations. It is not a sign of weakness, but rather of inner strength to know your own limits and to accept help where doing so helps you.

In a world where, unfortunately, asking for help is often interpreted as a weakness, people who stand to benefit from assistance often don’t get it. If you are willing to accept help from others with an open heart where needed, you can inspire others to do the same.

9. Don't Be Rigid in Your Opinions

It's good to have your own opinions. However, it often doesn’t make sense to always insist on them unwaveringly. Rather, being able to change your views in certain situations is a sign of emotional strength. Of course, this should not be random and above all not without reason, but sometimes new aspects simply arise, making you feel differently and realize you no longer stand behind a previous opinion. Emotional strength lies in admitting that you may have been wrong, or that you simply have a different view today. That's perfectly legitimate.

10. Be open to life

If only we allow it to be, life is colorful, entertaining and full of interesting experiences. Not every experience will lead to greater personal development and some may even hurt us. But closing yourself off from the world is not a good solution to avoid getting hurt. Rather, people with high emotional strength are characterized by the fact that they are open to new things, experiences, and people.

You can only enjoy life if you are open to what the world has to offer. Maybe sometimes it’s easier to settle into your little everyday routine and stick with what you’re used to. But you will also miss out on a lot of things that will help you in life. So be open to new things and encourage other people to do the same.

Today’s Conclusion: 

You can develop greater emotional strength over time if you put your mind to it. Emotional strength is not something you have or don't have. Maybe some people intuitively have more than others, but you can still continue to develop yourself in this area. Knowing the signs of emotional strength can be a good start.

Try to question yourself without belittling yourself. What areas of emotional strength do you excel at? Where do you want to improve? Pay attention to a current shortcoming in a certain aspect of your life and you may realize that this can be improved by working on your emotional strength. That's it for today. We hope you enjoyed today's post.