Don’t Waste ANY Time With ANYONE Who Means You No Good and Questions YOUR Worth!

Are you still brooding or are you already in love? Relationships can be complicated, however this is usually an indication that they are not meant to fulfill our lives. We don't all fall in love equally quickly or equally intensely. Women usually feel a sense of commitment to a man earlier than the other way around, which we can blame on hormones with a clear conscience. However, from the point where a fleeting encounter or a one-night stand turns into a relationship, certain rules apply. Respect and appreciation, honesty and adult communication are the basis for this. Boundaries need to be set and a few rules need to be established. Do you still meet with others or are you exclusive? Where should the joint journey go and is there even a goal that both are striving for? While women often see the big picture down to the smallest detail in their mind's eye at the beginning of a new love affair, men are more hesitant when it comes to planning for the future. That is their right. However, these reservations should be communicated clearly and not compensated with convenient excuses or dubious mind games. In this article, we would like to give you some food for thought on how you can protect yourself from investing too much time in the wrong partner.

1. Does she or he really want to spend time with you?

The person who loves you wants to see you on a regular basis. You don't have to be constantly banging down each other's doors, but time together is the point of a partnership in itself. If these meetings are only ever initiated by you and your better half rarely or never expresses a desire on their own to meet you, you are not on their priority list. And even if meetings do take place, are they only for physical exchange or is a partner also interested in what you think, feel and how your day was? In a solid relationship, you are allowed to let yourself down once in a while. The much-quoted good and bad times must find room. Anyone who only wants to be with you when you're the happy camper with no worries or problems doesn't deserve a place at your side. A true partnership is all-encompassing and doesn't just take place in the party zone of life. Don't let yourself be reduced to a buffet meal; never put your wants and needs on the back burner in favor of another person. Anyone who doesn't respect you as a person of equal standing is wasting your time.

2. Is she or he keeping secrets from you?

Respect has many faces. One of them is certainly being completely honest with each other. On the other hand, someone who constantly leaves the room to make phone calls or won't tell you where and with whom they spent the weekend doesn't value you nearly as much as you deserve. Anyone who wants to be with you should show it on all levels. Anyone who doesn't find you worthy of sharing their secrets and Achilles heel is not the right life person for you. In a relationship with future potential, everything must be possible. If you constantly feel like you're running into a wall, you'd better find someone whose door is wide open and who will welcome you with open arms and a sincere heart.

3. What about help and support?

The beauty of a partnership is knowing that we can always count on someone to have our back. We know we are never alone, no matter what it is. So much for the theory. How does it work in practice? Are you still moving your furniture around the apartment single-handedly because your supposed life partner prefers to go to sports or has other important obligations? Those that are obviously more important than you? Is there someone to help you when you come home late at night or do you have to make your way through the dark alone? Can you always call without having to look at the clock? If it's complicated, it's not right for you. Being alone can be much better and cozier as a single than in a relationship. If you feel lonely even though you are currently theoretically half of a partnership, this is not a sign of quality.

4. Does she or he want to meet your family and friends?

You are not just one person, you are part of a whole network of people who play a crucial role in your life. Your parents, your family, your circle of friends, they have all always made a valuable contribution to making you the wonderful person you see looking back at you from the mirror today. Therefore, it is only natural that you want to introduce your new flame to your closest circle. They are certainly already very curious to meet her or him. But what if your better half doesn't want that at all? If they show absolutely no interest in your environment, constantly invent excuses or simply make it clear that finding a connection is not of interest, it’s quite clear: they don't really want to get to know you either. You are not important enough for her or him, because otherwise people would pull out all the stops to find out every little detail about you. Plus, you certainly don't want to find yourself on the fence every weekend when it comes to who you can spend time with.

5. Do you always know where you stand?

Intentionally or not, some people love to play games with those around them. They make us wait, make cryptic comments, or respond by withdrawing for days at a time. An honest and open relationship is transparent. There is no room for misunderstanding or the constantly nagging question of what you might have done wrong. No one keeps you in the dark about his feelings, if he has any for you. If he sees in you only a pastime or a nice stopgap, you usually notice it right away, if you don't completely resist interpreting the signs correctly. If you have the distinct feeling you're in a play whose script you don't know and whose rules were written in invisible ink, get out. No one needs to be emotionally starved or spend their nights beating their brains out. If a partnership gives you more questions than answers, quit this unworthy quiz. You are at most a plaything here, but not a person for a common future.

Today’s Conclusion:

Everything unclear? It doesn't hurt to speak clear words at the beginning of a new love and to demand them from the other side as well. It's your right to want to know where the journey can take you both. If stonewalling or even threats are made, you should not give this thing another chance. If it's a good fit, both parties know it is. If, on the other hand, one party wants more than the other is willing to give, you'll create a strike from the start that's closer to the Titanic than the dreamboat.