10 Clear Signs That You Are Very Attractive to Others!
At the risk of already giving away a bit of the findings on this very exciting topic: Beauty is still in the eye of the beholder, but mainly in yours. Just as we can consciously choose to want to be happy people, the same works with attractiveness. However, here too, unfortunately, you can't fake an appearance or throw around glare grenades to achieve the desired effect. What you don't see, no one else sees. But first, let's look at what the clear signs are that we are attractive in the eyes of those around us.
1. You get compliments from women all the time.
It's a crazy world that physical attraction sometimes takes us to. Men find attractive women appealing, but still don't want to embarrass themselves by revealing their weaknesses with flippant compliments. On the other hand, the stronger sex is also very fond of minimalism of words and thinks pragmatically. A beautiful woman gets enough attention and positive feedback anyway. As a "man of the world," you don't necessarily want to go down the same road. Women, on the other hand, wonder why no man compliments them, but women certainly do. If you are not really aware of your attractiveness as a woman, you might fear exactly the opposite of what is actually true.
2. Appraising looks everywhere
Thank goodness evolutionary biology is not as easily steered as our common decency. After all, even if men can't bring themselves to compliment you on your looks, your appearance still stirs up a whole host of subconscious messages that are sent out. One of them: the appraising look. If men and women can't take their eyes off you, it's certainly not because you're an entirely average gray mouse who can't stand out from the crowd. Our eyes prefer to focus on the beautiful and flawless. If you then make eye contact, don't be surprised if men in particular lower their eyes again and pretend that their archaic gene pool isn't riding a roller coaster, because that's exactly what it's doing.
3. Men behave strangely around you
The less strong of the stronger sex have a hard time stifling their enthusiasm for beautiful women. Everything in them calls to arms; only their good upbringing and common decency keep you from doing so. The result of this half-hearted form of self-control is a mixture of primate male in the zoo and circus clown. Some men stretch to appear taller and more important. Still others raise their voices to attract attention. They do without drumming on the chest like Tarzan, but not much is missing. The modern interpretation of this is more like awkward conversation and an unintentionally comical performance from the realm of self-promotion, which is not exactly a subtle indication of what is going on in their hormonal balance right now.
4. People want to get to know you
Women and men alike are drawn to you if you are objectively considered one of the Beautiful People. They want to learn more about you, get to know you, and spend time with you.
5. You are independent
This point may come as a surprise, but it has been proven many times in scientific experiments. Women who shape their own lives and are not dependent on anything or anyone seem a lot more attractive to men than they would if they appeared to be a homebody. So self-determined is the new sexy.
6. Single life? No problem
Surprisingly, many more women go on an active partner search who are not so convinced of their appearance or perhaps have already received feedback that discouraged them. Those who feel beautiful and desirable actually have fewer problems with being alone. I wonder if it's because these people are alone, but not lonely. Maybe it's just that they enjoy their freedom knowing that they could always trade it back in for romantic obligations if they felt like it.
7. You acknowledge your flaws and shortcomings with a smile.
The real power of beauty lies in the power it gives us. When we feel attractive and desirable, our self-esteem soars to unimagined heights. The classic divas could not afford to wrap men and women alike around their fingers and drive them crazy with their airs and graces for nothing. But the knowledge of one's own attractiveness can also be liberating. We then tend to let ourselves get away with much more and to be generous with ourselves. Loosely based on the motto, "If you look good, you don't have to be able to park in reverse," life is much easier and more enjoyable.
8. You don't like being the center of attention
People who always feel shortchanged can't help but always loudly draw attention to themselves and their presence. For attractive people, on the other hand, the exact opposite is true. They would rather remain unrecognized and enjoy a party under the radar than be the center of attention. Unfortunately, it's in the nature of things that the crowd is always drawn to the beautiful, not the disaffected wallflower.
9. Other women want to be like you.
What perfume do you use? Who gets to do your hair? Where do you buy your clothes and what do you eat for breakfast? If some encounters seem like the interview of a market research survey, congratulations. We humans think that a lot of things in life can be done and controlled. The cosmetics and textile industries live off selling us this fake news as truth in sinfully expensive advertising campaigns. Of course, you are welcome to reveal your secrets. Your hairdresser and your nail salon will surely be happy about more customers. But the bottom line is that your attractiveness will always be much more than the sum of its parts. Even your fragrance smells completely different on someone else's wrist than it does on yours. You can't copy or imitate beauty, and you certainly can't operate on it.
10. Your appearance changes the room climate
You've probably noticed this phenomenon before. You enter a room and for a split second something noticeably changes. This moment may last only a blink of an eye, yet you realize that you've just influenced the atmosphere somehow. Beautiful people have this power to draw all eyes to themselves within a very short time, to set the blood of some contemporaries on fire, but also to create envious and begrudging vibrations. All these processes can neither be seen nor heard, but they are always clearly noticeable.
Today's Conclusion: You look the way you feel.
Even if the billion dollar beauty industry would like to sell it to us differently, beauty is 99% a question of the internal attitude. The one percent may then be used for external self-optimization. By the way, the best beauty tip of all comes from someone who should know. Coco Chanel once said, "Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself." That's it for today.